Of men and porn
What up with that?!
A guy friend of mine who -methought- to be quite conservative floored me with his librarian like knowledge of Internet porn, its categories, subcategories, downright freaky deaky subsets, and THEN his savvy of how to hide files, find anonymous links and get the most -bang- for free viewing of thumbnails.
NO YOU CANT TALK TO HIM! LOL He is a good guy. A happily married guy. A veritable wealth of porn-ology.
I've never been big on porn. I did spend one entire summer watching porn as an 18-yr-old with a bad boy boyfriend and his buddies, usually dropping L at the same time which is a whole other conversation. But it honestly didn't float my boat. It hardly got me heated. I'd rather be doing it than watching it.
In talking to my sweetie about -why- that is, we agreed it's because there is a great level of emotion and spritiuality that I attach to the experience of having sex. Yeah, that's it...BED WORSHIPPER! But seriously, it could be a one-time wonder or a marriage, but you can LOVE with all you have in that moment and it's amazing.
Porn ain't that. Plus it looks so fake! It is so fake.